5 Signs You’ll Have Good Long-Term Chemistry With Someone
When you are in a relationship some strange things happen in a relationship. And yes, it gets hard to explain because there are no words that could justify the way you feel for that person, or no words to justify your behavior, so you cannot explain those strange things.
And that is what exactly is the difference between a soulmate and a date or rather just a partner, a friend and a lover and that is when the CHEMISTRY part comes in.
Believe it or not, everyone wants this chemistry where they are madly in love with each other, where they feel like this is the ‘The One’ whom I was waiting for or longing for a very long time.
Here are 5 signs which will help you decide that you may have good long-term chemistry with someone special.
1. You Feel At Ease:
You really feel at ease when you meet that person for the very first time. Normally, if you meet some stranger you would be probably suspicious, quirky, or rather scared to even talk more than required.
But, with this person you would be at ease and very comfortable speaking with that person, spending time with that person. It feels to be natural in their presence and that is when you can have good chemistry with that person.
2. Getting Your Sense Of Humor:
Well this may sound something absurd but it’s a very important thing. If the person understands your sense of humor that person is definitely going to encourage you and understand you because it is rightly said that not all have the same sense of humor.
And it’s not only one way but also that you need to understand the sense of humor of the other person as well to keep it balanced.
Meaning it is absolutely a waste when you cannot make each other laugh or at least understand whether sarcasm or gig is what you type!
This will also help you deepen your feelings for each other and never mind — it works for a friend as well as with romantic relationships.
The ones who laugh together think together — the ones who have the same sense of humor, they also think alike.
3. You Are Just Comfortable:
If you have good chemistry you don’t need to sugar coat yourself rather you are very comfortable being the real you and it does the same for the other one.
To put it simply, you both feel very comfortable in being yourself with each other. And psychologically if you don’t need to edit anything in you or think before you speak you are most comfortable with that person.
4. Sharing The Same Level:
You tend to share the same level of openness with each other.
Having good chemistry does not imply that you need to share the same interests, but you need to have the same level of curiosity, intelligence, and the level of openness where you are willing to explore mutually.
And this is what is going to help you in the long run in your future basically.
5. Mirroring:
It is true that when you have good chemistry with someone you start mirroring their behaviors, postures, etc.
Mirroring is a behavior that people develop subconsciously while imitating the ones they are attracted to! It is a very simple theory as to how a child if he/she likes someone starts imitating their behavior, words, actions similarly it happens unintentionally with the adults.
It is very common for a person to start imitating someone’s behavior, way of talking, mannerisms, posture, etc. when that person has deep and good emotions as well as physical chemistry with the someone.
For example, maybe using the same words that the other person uses, or simply folding hands.
You will know it directly that you have good chemistry with someone because you will be drawn towards each other (maybe because of the sense of humor, same interests, same likings, same intellectual capacity anything).
It is not in everyone’s luck to have someone whom they share the best of chemistry and those people just understand each other without even uttering any words in particular.
It’s rare to find someone who can reciprocate the same connection with you hence, it’s advisable to never let go of that person whom you feel so connected with!
